Tilly1961 Blog This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 10.02.2010, 17:27

Man you lot are harsh - some of us do just want cuddles and to have some one who cares about us - however, we are all a bit fussy too. sometimes we need to get past the looks to see the real person underneath.
Sorry you having a horrible time - Ladies it is never too much trouble to keep in touch and say thanks but no thanks, but we can still chat on line can't we?
Chin up
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twostrikes This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 07.02.2010, 23:30

Reply to Honestguy68
if you think all women are "sugar and spice, all things nice"
who am i to spoil your delusions

if you think women are china dolls
devoid of THEIR own adgenda
well, your just wrong

bottom line is this:=
THESE WOMEN WERE NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM
(that's his main question)

how they ended it (the "it" being a hour of boredom)
is really immaterial

Honestguy68 This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 07.02.2010, 03:59

Reply to missBhaveing

I agree with PYAR68, to not tell someone that you don't fancy them and leave them hanging is Ignorant and emotionlly redundant, of you to Ignore another persons feelings who is attracted to you.
Always play fair and be honest with peoples feelings. It's a basic human characterisitc that you need to grasp onto, to be able to call yourself one!.

twostrikes This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 30.01.2010, 16:45

Reply to LittleMissDizzy
well it's nice to know you have a monopoly on all the Virtues
Honesty, the ability to always be right, and modesty
Wow ! your perfect ! there's an angel amoungst us mere mortals

you seem to hold a presumption that everyone ought to think and do as you do
but people do different things at different stages of their lives
they come from different backgrounds
they have different things going on
they have different lives

why didn't you answer the guys question ?
what's he doing wrong ?
why do you have the audacity to presume his version of events is correct
without hearing any testimony of any of the girls involved ?

oh, i see, your a self-righteous critic and not a helper
nevermind

PYAR68 This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 29.01.2010, 19:36

Reply to somersetlady2010

But most people dont understand that. Most are after "winning" or "losing". Humans must always be treated as humans....

somersetlady2010 Blog This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 27.01.2010, 17:04

Fantastic post LittleMissDizzy, good manners cost nothing.

LittleMissDizzy This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 25.01.2010, 19:06

I only joined the site yesterday and think MissBehaving's comments are a load of B*llocks personally. Honesty is something that is essential for me in a relationshp, and if someone didn't get that "thing" when a meet occurs and haven't the [censored] to tell the guy/girl during the course of that meet, then the least they can do is mail the person the next day and let them know.

Manners cost nothing, consideration costs nothing, empathy for the feelings of ofhers costs nothing.....

You've haven't lost a thing Steve - if anything you've had a lucky escape from an obviously shallow, inconsiderate person.... and who'd want a relationship with someone like that - go celebrate your good fortune, stop wasting your energy on someone who's not worth it and go find someone who is - Good Luck!

missBhaveing This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 18.01.2010, 23:10

Reply to PYAR68
look,in order to win with women
you have to lose
well, lose the right-brain thinking,why not try fun

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

i thing he's hapless,even the girls didn't come on here winge and cry

PYAR68 This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 18.01.2010, 18:10

Reply to missBhaveing
This "always" is always wrong. Nothing ever happens "always". There are exceptions to every rule whatsoever. Secondly, if u do something wrong, this is no justification for me to do the same. Every one is different and I think its a matter of time that one knows/understand about the person a bit more.Fading away ....I m sorry I can never do that to a person. I take humans are humans...I can only do this to a "phenomenon" and not a living being.
Anyway I cant change anyone and do feel sorry for tnb001, but did you check tnb that that guy didnt have an accident or something? R u sure he is still alive, not got killed in any accident in the snowy phase?I certainly regret the way u have been treated and thank very much for providing a very fresh example in my favour.... No one must ignore another person when there r emotions involved..whether a man to a woman or vice versa..!

missBhaveing This member uses the web version of DateTheUK 18.01.2010, 12:55

Reply to PYAR68
it's always the man's fault
the man leads
the woman follows
if he did it right do you think they would keep running away ?

keeping him guessing - women are not blokes, they think differently
basically,a woman may not tell a guy what she feels because she does want the flack,
the fall-out,the big scene/argument with this guy
it's easier just to fade away,not answer his calls, etc.

look at it from the poor girl's point of view, she was stuck with a guy who didn't do it
for her (emotionally connect) and the guy keeps ringing her

even when girls tell these orbiter-types that there's no chance, the guys still persist
they get put into the LJBF category and keep hoping to win her over
the woman from then on will not treat him as a man/lover, but a friend